Whether you’re new to the military life or are a seasoned spouse, you’re bound to need advice during your life as a military spouse. I mean, let’s face it – there’s not exactly clear guidelines when it comes to military living. And even if there WERE, they would change on a dime, reverse, flip, and […]
Articles by Bethaney Phillips
Tips for Traveling During Approved Leave … Even When it Doesn’t Work for Your Schedule

Note: none of us are traveling right now, due to a DOD-wide travel ban for military families and service members, but the day will come, once again, where travel is allowed. Book this away for your cabin fever relief in months in advance! Do you travel around your military member’s work schedule? OF COURSE you […]
Masks and Air-Fives: Have We Hit a New Normal Yet?

Months ago it would have been strange, if not alarming to see folks everywhere in masks. Ordinarily, you’d think they were sick, not trying to keep themselves safe. Handshaking, high fives, hugs — all of these and more were practiced on the daily. Only now, we’re giving air fives at six feet apart or greetings […]
5 Times it Feels Like Summer With Your Military Family

What makes it feel like summer to you? Is it a feeling? A smell? A time of year that’s warm and freeing — perfect for spending time with loved ones? Summer may feel different for everyone, but as we’re working our way into the dog days, it’s time to make the most out of what […]
How to Stay in Touch With Milspouse Friends Who Have Moved

It happened again. You made a new milspo bestie and it’s time for them to PCS. Usually this happens right about the time you get comfortable and become good friends. Ugh. Sure, you knew it was coming. You hoped it might change, but still the orders came through. Being prepared, however, doesn’t mean it’s an […]
5 Ways to Upgrade Your Home During Lockdown

You’re staying home, we’re staying home — everyone’s doing it. Even as states begin to relax laws about sheltering in place, we’ve not yet returned to our normal lives of remaining out and about. That, of course, means more time at home … and likely more time on our hands for projects. Making time for […]
Finding Your Tribe: Learning to Lean on Military Family When “Real” Family is Far Away

Who do you lean on when moving somewhere new? From the start of your very first PCS, it can become clear that living far away from family and lifelong friends brings many challenges. Sure, you can get homesick, frustrated by not knowing where you’re driving or how to easily find hotspots around town. But being […]
Easy Meals to Make During a Deployment

How do you cook when your military member is away? There are spouses who stick to sandwiches and frozen pizza, then there are stress bakers who bust out elaborate recipes on the regular. We like to think that the majority of the population is somewhere in-between, if not leaning toward the former. No matter your […]